I heard her say, but no she said!!!

Ladies all colors, races, backgrounds, I salute you for your brilliance, beauty, sexuality, but most of all a sisterhood, that we have inherited at birth.  Above anything else I salute you all because you ARE queens, we give birth to future kings and queens. We give without expecting, we are given Samson strength to get through tough times. We bounce back after hardships because we have to and that's all we know. We reach even though we don't see because it's better then waiting for handouts. I see us get caught up in situations with some that mean us no good. I have faith that my sisters will rise because I just cleaned the mud off myself.  Why does it seems that we have lost faith in the sisterhood. I see us forgive men for some of the worst betrayals but we will end a friendship over a  insecurity or a miscommunication. We will fight a female that owes us nothing over a man that we have given everything and owes us respect .  We fight only to look a fool for a man that isn't deemed worthy and could careless about you.  We women have to do better as a whole, I've been not so proud of plenty past moments but growth comes with change, and I'm better for it.  When are we going to be able to be genuinely happy for one another and less judgmental. I want to see women all across the world succeed. I want the "HATING" to stop amongst ourselves, be genuine and give compliments that don't end in but. Smh. Stop allowing men to pit us against each other, stand up for us, we are not a white, black, light skin, and dark skin war, we are a sisterhood that's getting slept on because we have allowed things and people to squeeze into the cracks of our barriers. We laugh when one of us is down and then kick them. We get no reward for bickering amongst ourselves, we do it for free and why?  We can excuse this behavior all day with but it's slavery mentality that excuse falls short because it's the now 2015  and it must stop.  I challenge you all to dismiss the, "I heard or No she said" people for thirty days and see how peaceful it becomes. It's a new year, let's show the world that a lot of us queens will make the choice to wear our crowns. I heard you are beautiful, I heard we all have made mistakes, I heard it gets better, I heard your down so here take my hand......😘 this is my first blog so don't be too hard on me please and thanks.... Salute to you ladies, you are great!!!