Part 1)What I prefer is what I prefer,
I'm my own competition,
Real not so much.
Do you all know it is okay and not the end of the world to have a preference. We in society think if my preference doesn't match yours then it's a life altering situation. It's okay to completely do you and enjoy what you enjoy. I love vanilla bean ice cream not vanilla but vanilla bean. Do I really have to debate and fuss because of the choice I made. If you like vanilla ice cream then you eat vanilla ice cream, see it is just what you prefer. I'm all for doing whatever makes you happy, as long as people aren't getting hurt, your not doing it for someone else's happiness over Gods and yours or your not being forced and hurting yourself. I want what I want, my preference is mine, and I will not debate you over it. It's okay to agree to disagree, just don't try to make someone into what you feel they should be. Be your own fan and make yourself happy. Self Esteem, better get you some, have it for yourself, refuse to live without it, and if it get lost in the wind, go get it back. Love yourself, be awesome to you, and wake up everyday with your mind set on outdoing that person in the mirror daily. You are the masterpiece and nobody on this earth can be a better you than you. If you see your flaws, they are what make you better. Scars show a battle that didn't take you out, which means you made it through or is still making it through. Your life is your story line, never get mad because someone storyline might fit the idea of the storyline you want. Always remember what God has for you, it is for you. See when you reach that understanding you will have no room for hate or envy because your too busy working on self. Working on self is not always about being selfish but sometimes you have to pull back and be like self, "it's just us today." Self Esteem on point, Self Love on point and Competition being self, you have began to win your race. Now, you've conquered the inner hater inside of you, yes inner hater. I say inner because we first hate ourselves, we are hard on ourselves because we can't remember that we are humans too, sometimes. So we attack people in the way we wish to attack ourselves or vice versa. See the "inner hater" in us causes us to be too "REAL" or "BLUNT or "HONEST". Now allow me to explain, when we upset someone with our words or actions, the first excuse or reason we use is one of those three words just mentioned. Let me be "REAL" real quick, not every thought you think, needs to hit the surface. Stop to think is this message uplifting or damaging because it can't be both. Let me be "BLUNT" real quick, ever thought to just shut up with your real self and ask yourself will anyone die because I said nothing. Sometimes being blunt is just plain out rude. Let me be "HONEST" has been used in so many vicious ways, it's becoming a headache. People say, let me be honest then say some real messy things, my thing is just say what you have to say but say it how you would want it said to you. I know we get with our friends and do our girly thing but sometimes the things we say, friends or not are just mean and rude. I have been found guilty in all avenues just crossed, working towards being better daily. There is so much hate in the world, let's try to minimize our part in it. Remember your words are either speaking out life or death. Choose your words and actions wisely. Let's stay away from the shade trees and stick together as women/men. Being kind doesn't involve kissing butt but it's maturity and growth. It's free to say hello and to smile. Remember you stay up by being prayed up.
Love to you all and God Bless All of you
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